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Posted by simplejoy1 on 6/14/2008 3:12:25 PM  -  Print This  -  Email This

I have been married to Dave for almost 19 years and he has had 2 past affairs. Yesterday I got a call from someone telling me that my husbands been seeing another woman. First he denied it then he confessed. I just want to curl up in a corner But I can't I have 2 kids 15 & 16. He says he is sorry for hurting me he say it has some thing to do with the fact works so much and doesn't feel appricipated by me IDK its been a rough 19 years I don't want a divorce But I don't think I can risk being cheated on again. I am a born again beliver in Jesus Christ but my huisband is not. Please pray that the lord will draw David to him and he would seek salvation, and the Lord give me strenght and wisdom
 

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Father God,

We thank You that You are faithful. We thank You that we can come boldly before the throne of grace and receive mercy. We ask that You draw Dave to You so that he will be our brother in Christ. We denounce the devil's work in his life. We cancel every assignment satan has against this marriage right now in the name of Jesus. We bind every cheating spirit that presents itself to Dave. We loose faithfulness, love and forgiveness into this marriage. We praise You that You are glorified in this marriage. We pray forgiveness, peace, joy and wisdom for Dave's wife. We thank You that she can stand in the gap for her husband. We know that You were present when this marriage covenant was formed. We know thank You that the three-cord covenant is not easily broken. In Jesus' name. Amen
6/14/2008 6:56:10 PM - mrspiggy, Member of Delve into Jesus since 1/18/2008


Thank you for your prayer for my husband and my self. I believe as the WORD says gain, I say to you, that if two of you are in agreement on earth about anything for which they will make a request, it will be done for them by my Father in heaven. For where two or three are come together in my name, there am I among them. I know Dave has free will but I know our Fathers will keep looking for his lost sheep until he comes home Please Keep praying and praying. Glory be to God
6/14/2008 9:31:42 PM - anonymous


Hi Simplejoy1 - I have prayed for you, your children and Dave; and will continue to remember your request.
6/14/2008 10:45:34 PM - anonymous


Dear Sister,
I understand. I can identify with your pain and hurt of being betrayed by a husband many times. You are not alone in what you are feeling and going through. WE do not have to stand for the enemy using our husbands. We must put Satan under our feet where he belongs. I will be praying for your husband to not continue to yeild his members to another woman outside of you. You are precious in the sight of our God and he wants to see you healed and your husband saved. Father said that he willing that no man perish but have everlasting life. I will pray.

Father,
We thank you for today and for all the wonderful father's Lord. Father, I want to lift up Simplejoy1 husband to you and ask that you draw his heart to want to seek Jesus and desire salvation. Lord we know this is your will for all men on earth. Lord, my sister desires to see her husband saved and spared, and Lord I stand with her. Father, Simplejoy1 has expressed that she has been with her husband for many years and he has gone to other woman outside our thier marriage. Father, please in Jesus name give peace and guidance to my sister. Father, we ask that you put on this man's heart to ask for forgiveness for what he is doing to his family. Lord, I ask that you guide my sister in this situation and give her peace and heal her broken heart, In Jesus name I pray. Amen.
6/15/2008 5:17:04 PM - stephanieross, Member of Delve into Jesus since 4/22/2008


i can completely understand what you are feeling. Hold to God's unchanging hand. Keep your eyes on things eternal. God is working on your husbands heart right now. Be patient and keep yourself in prayer.
The Lord will heal your broken heart and He will give you peace.
I will be praying for your husband along with my own. There are many of us with this same situation. Hang on.
You will be in my prayers.
God Bless you.
6/16/2008 8:58:20 AM - anonymous


I will pray for you ..God bless you
6/16/2008 9:40:58 AM - Michray, Member of Delve into Jesus since 1/21/2008


Stand up and rebuke Satan away from you dear Lord, ask that he may not be deceived by the enemy.

I pray for your strength, and your faith to continue. Dear Lord help Simple Joy 1 remain faithful to you Lord during another storm, increase her faith Dear Lord and Hold her tenderly in your hands, she is your beautiful sweet daughter, and only you can help her and her husband.

Dear Lord, I come boldly to your throne and I ask that Simple Joy 1's husband opens up his ears and eyes to you. I pray you speak to him Lord, in a way he can understand and relate to.

I ask him to open his ears to your words and to not resists you as you are now drawing him near. I stand in Victory Lord, for Simple Joys Marriage, and for her husband and dear Children.

Please give them all wisdom, discernment, and I know that you will completely restosre this marriage and family, in Jesus's Name.


NCMom
6/19/2008 9:27:49 PM - anonymous


Thank you for your prayers, I am not going to let the enemy destroy what God has joined together
6/25/2008 1:35:36 PM - anonymous


I need your prayers too. I caught my husband cheating. He travels with Nascar and was flying "her" to the races and telling me that I couldn't come. He got fired from his job because of "things" pertaining to HER. He is home now.... and is "acting" like he loves me. BUT.... I have almost had an emotional breakdown.... she is still calling him and I think he may be calling her (secretly, of course). I too am a believer in Christ... and I KNOW that satan is defeated.... please agree with me that satan take his hands off of my husband and our marriage and that God will restore it tenfold! I also pray that God will convict my husband (he hasn't shown any remorse for his activities). He says he was saved 2 years ago..... I can not judge him but I see no fruit.... he is drinking now, cursing badly.... and the cheating. PLEASE pray for me! And I too... am praying for all of you.
10/9/2008 3:59:58 AM - anonymous


hi i will be praying for you i am going through the same thing except my husband had another child...... i hurt but im still blessed and so are you
3/22/2009 10:14:26 PM - karmalee, Member of Delve into Jesus since 2/18/2009


I too have a cheating spouse and do not want to end the marriage. I have three children, 17 months, 5 years old, and twelve. I think I have been a good wife, that is just my thoughts. He advised me that I was not being a good wife but a good mother. Please pray for my family that we all can be closer to God and have faith in each other. I do not know which direction to turn, but after reading your comments, I feel that I have hope.
3/29/2010 3:36:28 PM - ceejay123, Member of Delve into Jesus since 3/29/2010


Not only is my husband plagued with lust, but not working and smoking marijuana regularly. I have been the provider for 13 years and one of the reasons that he claims for cheating is that I am boring and nag too much. I basically want him to get a job and be a loyal husband and father. He says he wants to but his actions show that he is focused on being entertained. I could be more fun if I didn't have the weight of the bills and worry about who he is cheating with constantly on my shoulders. We've tried counseling several times with several different people/couples but he always finds something wrong with our counselors once they call him to the carpet. I've been called on things too, like being too critical-but I can take the comments because I'm so committed to the marriage. I believe in God's covenant and the power of prayer. But, I've been fasting and praying and seeing no consistent results. I wonder if we have too many problems to overcome. Maybe this is not God's will for my life. If it were just the cheating, or just the work-ethic, or just the drug use I could overcome...When I do hear from God, I believe He is saying to stay and stand in prayer, but I am worried that I can no longer handle all of this. I desparately need a breakthrough in some area of this. Please keep me lifted in prayer that God's Perfect Will be revealed to me in Jesus' Name! Thank you!
5/25/2010 7:11:51 PM - seekingjoy, Member of Delve into Jesus since 5/25/2010


I know what you are going through, my husband is cheating on me and he left, saying he needs to get himself together. I don't know if I should give up on this marriage. I love him so much. Please pray for me Dale and I have been married for 10 years. This last year he was laid off, and that's when the staying out late and coming home the next morning started. Now he is just gone, he has not taken all his clothes, but I just know what to do. I want my marriage, but I dont want to live like this.
11/24/2010 7:58:42 AM - Angel01, Member of Delve into Jesus since 11/24/2010


I will definitely be praying for you! Your marriage can absolutely be saved through Christ Jesus, but the road to healing can be long and painful...it surely requires a mature faith.....I am just learning these things on my journey towards a healthy marriage....you must count the cost and decide for yourself where you stand. Stay encouraged...God will never leave or forsake you!
11/25/2010 5:37:56 PM - seekingjoy, Member of Delve into Jesus since 5/25/2010


My husband has been cheating and the woman could be pregnant. I am praying that GOD heals my marriage and my husband sees me with clear eyes. I pray that the demons that have got a hold of my husband, will flee. I just pray that if someone else is in accord with me then he will be free.

2/24/2011 10:15:08 AM - sweetchrissy76, Member of Delve into Jesus since 2/24/2011


Like previous posts, I too am trying to deal with a cheating husband who is not saved. We have children together, he has an additional one and there is a possibilty that another is on the way. Today, when I was ready to throw in the towel, the word from my inspirational quotes (emailed to me) and at church was to be patient. God hates divorce. God knows the plans that he has for me. Everytime I feel like giving up, I receive a word that tells me to hold on and keep on loving! I am holding on because I received confirmation from God before we got married. (though sometimes I begin to doubt it) The pain is intense but each moment that I think about Jesus, his standards and that he is able, there is a peace. I can only encourage you to keep Loving and find yourself in a place of worship. We wrestle not with flesh and blood...Praise has to go to another level. The spirit of Abaddon must be exposed. May the Holy spirit trouble your husband and mine until there is surrender and a desire to come out of darkness. Amen.
4/10/2011 3:03:27 PM - Aworshipper, Member of Delve into Jesus since 4/10/2011


Thank you so much for your words of encouragement! They have provided me with confirmation on this day also, reminding of what God said to me some eleven years ago. TO GOD BE THE GLORY!!! HALELLUJAH!!! I THANK YOU LORD!!! YOU ARE SOVEREIGN!!!
4/10/2011 3:55:35 PM - seekingjoy, Member of Delve into Jesus since 5/25/2010


BLESS THE LORD! I praise God with you. God's timing is impeccable.
4/11/2011 12:09:34 AM - Aworshipper, Member of Delve into Jesus since 4/10/2011


I was looking for prayers for a cheating husband and came across this page. My husband is having an affair for I don't how long. We have 2 lovely kids, the reasons why I just pretend that everything is going to be okay. I've been praying that the loving feeling would come back and that success and money won't drive him away from our family. My husband is a very ambitious man. He is attracted to women with money. I know deep down insude him that there's still goodness. I pray that he wakes up and be contented and happy with our family.
6/20/2011 3:40:24 AM - H0peful8, Member of Delve into Jesus since 6/20/2011


i am so troubled too at this moment...my husband has cheated on me several times but he keeps asking for forgiveness and he he promises not to do it again...but he continues. i was planning on leaving him but after reading all your problems and how God wants to work in mysterious ways in our lives, im thinking again..

i need your prayers that God will help me to find ways to draw him to God ..
7/6/2011 5:52:42 PM - ivadiva, Member of Delve into Jesus since 7/6/2011


I HAVE READ ALL OF YOUR POST AND I PRAY OUR GOD WILL SEE US ALL THROUGH. I AM FACED WITH THE SAME PROBLEM AND REALLY DO NEED GOD'S INTERVENTION IN THIS. I HAVE BEEEN MARRIED FOR 12 YEARS NOW AND THERE HAS NEVER BEEN ANY YEAR IN THIS MARRIAGE THAT MY HUSBAND IS NOT CHEATING ON ME. THE ENEMY PLANTED A GIRL IN MY MAARIAGE FOR 7 YEARS TODAY UNTIL SHE STARTED BEARING CHILDREN FOR MY HUSBAND. WE HAVE FIVE LOVELY CHILDREN AND BECAUSE I KNOW GOD HATES DIVORCE, I AM LIKE CAUGHT IN A NET THAT CANNOT COME OUT. I HAVE BEEN PRAYING AND IT SEEMS GOD IS FAR FROM RECEIVING MY PRAYERS.RIGHT NOW, THE LADY IN QUESTION IS PROUDLY CARRYING ANOTHER CHILD FOR MY HUSBAND UP TO THE EXTEND THAT SHE WILL EVEN SEND ME TEXT MESSAGES AND FLOWN THE PREGNANCY WHEN SHE SEES ME. IF SHE SEES MY HUSBAND AND I ON THE STREET SHE WILL WALK TO WHERE WE ARE AND TRY TO HAVE A CHAT WITH HIM MAKING SURE HER SON STARTS SHOUTING DADDY DADDY. WHEN I CONFRONTED MY HUSBAND HE WAS SOOOOO PROUD OF IT AND TELLS ME HE CAANOT STOP SEEING HER SINCE THERE IS A CHILD INVOLVED. HE LIES EVERY TIME ABOUT HIS ACTIVITIES AND HAS REFUSED TO SEE THAT THE LADY INN QUESTION IS AN AGENT THAT HAS BEEN ASSIGNED TO DESTRY HIS DESTINY AND DISTRACT HIME FROM SERVING GOD. I AM A BORN AGAIN AND A COMMITED WIFE. EACH TIME I FEEL DOWN I TURN TO PROV 31:10-31, THEN I FEEL RECHARGED AGAIN. PLS JOIN ME IN PRAYERS FOR THE SALVATION OF MY HUSBAND AND FOR GOD TO REMOVE ANY STRANGE WOMEN IN MY MARRIAGE IN JESUS NAME.THANKS AND GOD BLESS YOU ALL AS YOU READ.
9/24/2011 6:56:12 PM - BRAVO, Member of Delve into Jesus since 9/24/2011


Hello sisters,
I hope you all are doing well by the grace of God.I know exactly you all feel..I'm praying for you all..I have been married for almost 8 yrs and my husband has been cheating on me through this whole 8 yrs..Recently i was told by his mistress that she is 2 month pregnant and i am so worried about it..i am a born again christian but not perfect one ..We have 3 beautiful children together..I hate divorce too..Please pray that my husband Joey will realized that he is hurting us and what he is doing is against God's will...Please Ask God to touch his heart in Jesus name.God bless you all and be strong my sisters I love you all...
11/1/2011 6:33:39 AM - bella33, Member of Delve into Jesus since 11/1/2011


Hello Women of God. Just wanted to share in the hope that someone would be reminded that God is Able. I last posted on this site back in April, since then my husband has moved out and continues to live his life the way he wants. (Intimacy has resumed and he still sees or speaks to the children everyday) Yesterday, 1st Nov made 8 years of marriage. I recognise that 8 is symbolic of new beginnings and have been praying for a new beginning however God would have it. After putting my wedding band back on and putting back one of our wedding pictures on the wall, I received confirmation from The Word for Today on the 1st Nov - "Do not despise these small beginnings, for the Lord rejoices to see the work begin... Zechariah 4:10". [praise break]

God works according to your faith and faith comes by hearing the word of God. Be reminded that the devil is a liar - always has been. As often as you remember, speak the words 'My marriage is blessed' because I'm sure the devil has been whispering that your marriage is doomed! God will fight our battles for us, we just need to trust him, have faith and walk in it (faith without works is dead). I've realised that though I have tried to fix things - I can not save my husband - thats God's job, so I must concentrate on Worship, the Word and Loving the way God told us to. Keep seeking God for the answer, its a journey but he will bring you to a place of peace. God bless you all for sharing.
11/2/2011 4:19:47 AM - Aworshipper, Member of Delve into Jesus since 4/10/2011


Oh, Holy father I pray for DAVE to turn around his behavior and come to appreciate the beautiful wife and kids his got, I know these are signs of the devil trying hard to set a family of four apart. In the name if Jesus this act of the devil will not work or materialize. I am currently dealing with a similar situation and I join Dave in saying the DEVIL IS A LIAR. Amen
1/31/2012 8:11:53 AM - gakpekt, Member of Delve into Jesus since 1/31/2012


Hello All, I just joined and I just wanted to come straight forth and ask for prayer within my marriage. I have been with this man 12 years and married almost 8 years.
I have prayed and it gets better then it goes back to the worst!
My husband has cheated and cheated and cheated. He even had another child by his childrens mother. She uses the child to torture me and demand from him. I am confused. I love him but I must love me more he has cheated with at least 4 women at a time I am at a lost and I need a healing and a clear mind please pray for us. Pray for my peace this woman tortures me via email, phone or making her presence known. I am calling out to God for direction. I want to grow and put it all behind but I must admit I am HURT to the CORE. Thanks Elease
8/9/2012 7:21:40 AM - milleel, Member of Delve into Jesus since 8/9/2012


Please help me pray for my husband, We have been married for 10 years and this is the only time we have been apart for long. Its been 5 months since he was away and there is no sign of him coming back. He said that he's confused and not sure if our marriage will still work. The only thing i can do is pray as God knows I love him. Please help me pray for my husband that he will think better and come back to us family with my 15 years old son.

In the name of the Lord! Amen
11/11/2012 4:57:34 AM - Ladee, Member of Delve into Jesus since 11/11/2012


God hears you Ladee, he knows your heart and he will fix this marriage in Jesus Name. What God has put together his word says "Let no man put asunder." I truly beleive God will change your husbands confusion to unconditional love and he will return to you and the family. Hold fast and continue to seek Gods face daily.
I had problems in m my marriage too but even though it was so hard and painful never once did I faint or give up. continue to pray for your husband and watch how God turn it around. Love ya Sister and be encouraged. Elease
PS. I am always here for prayer if you need it.
11/12/2012 5:52:34 AM - milleel, Member of Delve into Jesus since 8/9/2012


My Husband has cheated on me seven times already, I am so tired I continue to pray for him but SATAN has taken him over. He will never admit to me because by nature is a lier ..The ladies that he cheats with are always ladies in the streets its such a shame because I am from a good family please pray for is addiction in cheating.
4/12/2013 9:54:19 PM - flowers1, Member of Delve into Jesus since 4/12/2013


By faith we must stand our cheating partners have not learned to be our friends, they don't understand the pain their action brings to our relationship. The women lie to them and believe they can trust these men. The men lie to them and believe they won't get caught. This cycle is wrought for destruction.it does it's job very well. My pain is great. I am angry and sometimes irresponsible. Please pray for me. I don't know how to cry and my heart is full.i need rest in Jesus name. Ladies I send whatever peace you can find ,Grace to you
5/26/2013 12:33:09 AM - In faith, Member of Delve into Jesus since 5/26/2013


I am in pain. This summer a man came to my door and told me my husband was sleeping with his fiancé. After four days of questioning and his denial, my husband finally came clean. I kicked him out and had a nervous breakdown. My 8 year old son was witness to my breakdown. I met my husband when I was just 17 and have been madly in love with the man ever since. After a few months, I agreed to forgive him and welcome him home. A month later I check my husbands phone and there was a text with xoxo at the end. I asked the texter to stop texting my husband and three different women started texting me telling of their affairs with my husband. My heart which was not completely healed has broken again. That's four women in under three years. I love my husband and he claims to still love me. After his past affairs came out, he sought forgiveness from The Lord and asked Christ into his heart. He's sought counseling with a friend who is a pastor and he's claimed to recommit himself to our little family. For him and our marriage, I converted from Buddhism to Christianity and asked Christ into my heart and asked him to lead my life according to his will. I've asked this and prayed and we even live together again and attend church regularly but I'm still feeling so much pain and I'm so incredibly depressed. I ask for support and prayers from you all to help me through this deep pain and beyond.
12/22/2013 9:42:40 PM - MamaKAL, Member of Delve into Jesus since 12/22/2013




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