Dear Lissy, sometimes when I felt so low I couldn't find the words to pray, I would only say jesus jesus jesus over and over again, because i knew he would hear my cry and know how deep was my pain. you feel horrible now, in shock, and probably like you yourself have been defiled. when the initial shock wears off, you should push your husband into seeking counseling, either with you or by himself. There's obviously something deeper going on here with him but that doesn't mean it can't be worked through and healed. I pray that God helps you both put your marriage back to a healthy whole. Don't give up, the great physician can heal anything. Blessings.

1/18/2012 11:28:44 AM - Hannah, Member of Delve into Jesus since 1/17/2012

hey Lissy just dont get failed.When Jesus is with you then who can turn against you. Its just a bad phase and I understand your situation pretty well. But trust me this is the time for more prayers and less worries. I know its difficult to forget and forgive but if your heart says that your husband will never ever repeat it then please try to forget and try to forgive just like Jesus forgives all our sins. Your husband will need you in this worst circumstances, stand beside him and give him your moral support and love and prayers. This will definitely make him realize what he has done to you and trust me he will never forget your importance. Take him to Jesus and let him pray. Give him some space instead of forcing your emotions on him. He is matured enough to understand good and bad. God is with You always.

1/18/2012 9:29:49 PM - pujajesus, Member of Delve into Jesus since 1/17/2012

God is there by your side through it all. Always remember that He is the master at restoring relationships! keep the faith and I will pray for the restoration of your relationship and family health. May God bless you and keep you through this rough storm.

1/18/2012 10:41:54 PM - chris_sims1981, Member of Delve into Jesus since 10/11/2011

Lissy, Keep your eyes on Jesus... Remember David in the Bible? He messed up so many times. Thank God the Bible isn't all about perfect people...it's about people like ourselves. Yet, God called David a man after His own heart. Yes, we wonder why or how bad things can happen to us...Yet, always look to Jesus, and remember, no matter what... God has a plan... God bless you Sister. Fear not. God is with you. God has a plan!

1/19/2012 1:42:31 PM - Ignited~Faith, Member of Delve into Jesus since 2/20/2008

Thank you all for your prayers and encouragement. God bless you all! I prayed with my husband last night and I will again tonight, and the night after......... I haven't felt more comforted by the Lord. I needed the reminders to trust in the Lord. To call upon Jesus to hear my cries. I do beleive things like this happen so that God can rearrange our lives to make it the way HE has planned. I prayed to have the right words to say. He is very remorseful and going to seek counseling. We are all full of sin, I know. I will forgive my husband. I want him to forgive himself too. I know this is going to take time and we are just going to have to take it day by day. It's already brought us closer to the Lord.

1/19/2012 2:14:14 PM - Lissy80

Blessings, sister. I know God will be with you step by step through the journey.

1/19/2012 5:06:40 PM - Hannah, Member of Delve into Jesus since 1/17/2012

After you get over the shock of it you then need to think about how to heal this marriage. It's not the act of cheating it s the after burn that will ruin the marriage! This could be a way to get even closer to your Husband and the Lord! I no it sounds crazy but he works in mysterious ways!!! You might be able to figure out what he was searching for in that relationship and what you both need in your "new relationship" cause this is a "new" relationship different from the way it was before! God will help you figure this out if you ask him and also the most hardest thing is to FORGIVE him !!!! But you must find a way to do it! May be going to your church and getting marriage consulting through the church is a good way to begin the healing processes! Ive been through this and let me just say... me and my husband have been married for 22 years....! and counting! the cheating was nt the hard part .....it was forgiving that was hard but you have to do it!!!! and not half hearted!!!! ask yourself would Jesus say "I forgive you ....but not all the way" it takes time but you can do it! and afterwards your marriage will be better than ever!!! Good luck and dont e afraid to get spiritual help!

1/25/2012 7:37:30 AM - philjn5, Member of Delve into Jesus since 1/19/2012

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